Finding the right roommates(s) to live with is just as important as finding the right apartment. Roommate(s) are part of your living environment and lifestyles should be considered before choosing to live together. In order to prevent any disagreements that may occur, we strongly advise discussing all living conditions before signing a lease. Our Roommate Selection Checklist is a good place to start these discussions. After that, you should use a more in depth Roommate Agreement.
General talking points to find the right roommates for you:
- Location – Talk about where you want to live and aspects such as commute time, groceries, etc.
- Budget – Not everyone has the same budget. Make sure to discuss everyone’s expectations when deciding where to rent.
- Sleeping Habits – Preventable roommate conflicts involve making sure that everyone has a comfortable sleeping environment.
- Health Concerns – Be mindful of medical conditions such as food allergies, asthma, etc.
- Cleanliness – Keeping a clean environment has many forms across different areas. Discuss laundry and cleaning schedules in your roommate contract.
- Guests – Having roommates means discussing when guests may be invited to the apartment. Be considerate to all roommates when inviting guests.
When conflicts seem unsolvable, there are next steps you can take. Northeastern’s Office of Student Conduct and Conflict Resolution can help roommates by providing an impartial mediator. Use the Conflict Resolution & Mediation Request Form to schedule a meeting.
Remember, if you ever feel unsafe or feel that your roommate’s behavior is concerning, contact Boston Police (9-1-1) or Northeastern University Police Department (617-373-3333) for additional assistance.
